Another baby

I could have written this. My OH said he only wanted one. We then had a surprise second. The whole pregnancy, he said no more and that he was getting the snip. Now baby #2 is here he's said IF a third happens fine, but he's still getting the snip. Sometimes, they just need time. I was feeling very sad so I totally get how you're feeling. We have two girls, so I think he's hoping if a 3rd happens, it'll be a boy. X

@Deb thank you, I appreciate it🤗 Yeah I really hope to have 2🥲 I didn’t breast feed much because I had high blood pressure and wasn’t feeling well and I really want to do it for longer and I want my baby to have a sibling close in age🤗

@Deb plus after a second one I’d be done so I’d rather have the other one now then be done 😂

Totally understand this! I would love 3 or 4 if I was lucky enough but my boyfriend only wants our 2 that we have now. I struggle with it a lot but he's very set on it being a no! 🥺

Our second was a surprise at 6 months pp. I wasn't on anything and we was naive as thought it wouldn't happen as it took us 13 years to conceive Wyntr. I always wanted 2, but if we got two girls or two boys, I'd like to try a again, we got two girls. He's always said just one. X

Well I could say you should first know the reason why your partner doesn't want

@Susan Lynn it’s because he misses sleep😂 our baby isn’t sleeping very well, he’s teething 🥲

@Jessie I’m so sorry 😞 same id have heaps if my partner would let me lol😅 also if I could afford it😅 I hope he changes his mind for you🙏

The sleep loss is temporary. You're smart to group it together rather than drag it out....

My husband is always saying this he’s content with our one boy but my heart longs for more children😭I want my son to know the joy of having a sibling

@Justine definitely, same 🥲

@Justine I am almost thinking about getting pregnant and making him deal with it😅 because he loves our baby and he wanted another one but now he wants sleep so I will just get more support so he can sleep, I don’t know though I want him to agree before I get pregnant

I’ve almost been wanting to “trick him” I know it’s wrong😭but I’ve been trying to only have sex when I’m ovulating and he caught on to me😔I just really want my babies to be close in age he doesn’t understand becuz him and his siblings are yrs apart his oldest sister is 42 and he’s 25. Me and my sisters are at most 2 yrs a gap between us

@Justine don’t feel bad though, I completely understand 🤗 Just talk to your partner about how you feel🙏 Don’t judge yourself 🙏