Using a doll to prepare your eldest?

Has anyone used a baby doll/ toy baby to prepare their first born for the new arrival? Does it help and did you think it was worth while? My little one will be 18 months when his brother arrives and I want to do anything possible to help him acclimatise. But I also don’t want to make things worse by introducing a doll that’s nowhere near as fragile as a newborn. Like do I let him hold the toy baby ect or do I treat it like a real baby and only let him touch gently? Or scrap it all together and roll with it when baby arrives?
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I did! My son was also 18 months when he brother arrived. We taught him help with nappy changes, get bottles ready, burping and putting them down for naps. Sometimes I held the doll and when my son wanted something i explained that the doll needed my attention and he needs to wait. He still looks after his doll now and even tells me “sorry mummy, baby needs my attention” when we’re going out😂

I did! My son was 14 months when his baby brother arrived. I helped him acclimatise by getting baby’s things out in the house quite early on. Baby swing, Moses basket etc. I then put the doll in the swing, bassinet. I held the doll, fee the doll. I told him there’s a dolly in my belly. When baby boy did arrive, my son was amazing. I couldn’t have faulted him at all. They’re 1 and 2 now and they’re absolutely perfect together. They’re the best of friends x

Yes we bought one for Christmas to practice baby, gentle hands etc. he’s been a superstar since she has arrived giving her kisses and hugs to the top of her head. The only thing we find difficult is that he hits his hands into the noses basket with excitement so we keep the Moses basket on our kitchen table rather than in its stand.

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