I feel you :) I am part of a NCT type of group and I felt like an outsider at times, also there is this Mum x who I have written to in private once telling her I cannot come to the gather up she organised due to me being quite ill and she just read and no reply back so I felt like I was not showed any compassion which sucked. So yes, there is always one Mean girls type of mum 🤣🤣 but it s fine, we don t need them, just try not to be bothered. Xx
@Jen I wondered if it was jealously but honestly it’s such high school behaviour. It’s really sad if she feels that way as on paper she’s got a lot going so well in her life, as have I. So why we can’t all just get along is beyond me.
@Liana oh my god that’s so rude. At least you had the decency to let her know. Where are peoples manners? Honestly it’s a hard enough time trying to get to know all these new people at baby groups and navigate a new role as mum, you’d think we’d all have each others backs.
Motherhood is supposed to be beautiful but it can bring out the worse in some people…….. they get jealous and become competitive. It’s like being at school again. 🙄 As hard as it is, ignore and move on. She is not worth your time.
Jealousy. If there's hatefulness for no reason it usually always stems from some level of jealousy. Keep on as you are, continue to be nice and smiling at waving. The other mums will pick up on it, and eventually one of them will call her out, then she's going to feel terrible x