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I think it’s both. I cheated for the first time in my life and I was under the influence. Deep down I think I wanted to. But I immediately knew it was a mistake once it happened and I came clean about it.
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Definitely choice. The person can later feel remorseful but it was still a choice...
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I agree! A mistake is an accident. It is not possible to “accidentally” cheat...
A combination of both. If I willfully consent to cheat on my husband, my poor character choice can have devastating consequences such as divorce, family court hearings, etc. It's a human error we can forgive, but not necessarily tolerate. Love the question.
If you can trip and fall in a vagina then that’s a mistake but if you undress and look for a place to cheat than what kind of a mistake is that
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Sometimes it can be a mistake but it’s mainly a choice. For sure. Even if you feel bad about it, it was still a choice lol.
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How can it be a mistake enlighten me please
Choice! You choose to cheat
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Its definitely a choice because you would have contemplated it first.
Btw that was the first and only time. That shit broke my spirit.