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31 weeks & breeched

My baby is suddenly not head down, I got checked today cause I fell Thursday on my butt, baby is fine but he isn’t head down right now. Anyone experienced this? Does this lead to c section or do you think I will be fine?

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Having a C section @ 36w 3d come NYD. (1/1/25)

Hi ladies! Just wanted to know what I should pack in my bag. this is my 4th go around but 3rd c section and for some reason my brains just drawing a blank! Wish us luck!! He had a blood transfusion in utero bc of fetal anemia, (due to rh- blood type) but is doing well since. Dr wants to take him at 36w 3d just to be...

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Y’all…I gave birth!!!

My baby boy decided to come on his own 4 weeks and 1 day early! Woke up to a big pop in my belly - water had broken - and immediately started having intense pelvic contractions. Went to labor and delivery and I was 2cm dilated. An hour later, 6cm, and hour after, 9.5cm. Stayed there for maybe an hour and a half and...

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vanderbilt

has anyone delivered at vanderbilt? and if so did u use mary jane during your pregnancy ? did they do anything ?

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Gap after 2 C-sections

What’s the best gap to plan after having previously 2 C-section? I am planning baby Nr 3

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Experience with Cervidil

Can anyone share their experience with Cervidil? I’m being induced tomorrow morning, but was only 1cm dilated and 50% effaced, so they inserted Cervidil around 3pm today. Just looking to see what I can expect!

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Hospital bag

How many of each thing are you packing for hospital for baby? My first born had quite a few changes that I actually ran out and partner had to bring more but we were in hospital for a week.

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Constipation post c section

6 weeks post section, is it normal to still be having constipation, it’s got a little better but still quite difficult to pass stools, started taking lactulose again but don’t want to rely on it!

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37+3

TMI but Im currently 37 weeks pregnant and since around 3.30/4pm today I haven’t been able to stop leaking urine! But when I go to the toilet, my bladder doesn’t feel like it needs emptying?? I’m trying to wee but I literally can’t, yet when I’m walking around it just trickles out. I’ve had cramps and cramps and mil...

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Water breaking?

How do I know if my water broke or if I’m just leaking amniotic fluid?! Did anyone else’s water break by a slow leak instead of a pop & gush?

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Night 3 in hospital - 37+3

After baby being transverse (sideways) at week 36 and 37 I’m now on my 3rd night in hospital. Day 1 here and baby turned head down 🎉 so hoping tomorrow he is still that way so I can go home for Xmas as they need him to be in that position for 48 hours. Feel totally fine within myself but being here and hearing…

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Naturally induce labour

Hey girlies any tips on naturally inducing my labour ? I’ve been told I need an induction due to the size of my baby just after Christmas ( he’s 8lb 1oz at 37 weeks ) so want to try everything to make it easier / come on naturally 😂 thanks x

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Pain relief

How long after your c section did you take pain relief? I'm two weeks pp and feel I still need it.

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C section scar

Hello, I am due to have my dressing removed on boxing day and been wondering if there is any advice of how I can keep the scar area from getting sweaty. As a plus size girlie I'm worried my apron belly may cause the area to get more sweaty more quickly

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Induction Pessary

Has anyone had the pessary as an induction method only. I’m hoping if I have to go through with an induction next week that it will be with least intervention as possible. I presume the more interventions used the more complicated and long labour can be but hoping it is pretty common that a pessary only is used and ...

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Anyone had a good experience with north Middlesex hospital?

Had my first baby there and had the worst experience but other hospitals are so far so no choice but to go with them this time too. Everyone I’ve met whose had a baby there dont have a good experience so anyone actually had a positive experience and want to share?

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Hospital away from local area! Experience and advice

Hi, I recently found out that I am pregnant (currently 2-3 weeks) and after reading reviews online my husband and I have decided to self refer to St Thomas in central for care although we live locally in Bromley. Wanted to ask if someone has had a similar experience at a hospital away from their local area or at St ...

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Liverpool Women's

Hi, can anyone tell me whether my partner will be allowed to stay overnight in hospital with me after I have the baby? I am due in January and will be having a planned c-section. Thanks

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planned c-section birth plan?

whats a good birth plan for a planned section?

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Labour

Can dad's stay overnight at the hospital with you once given birth?? Or will it just be visiting hours they are allowed?

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