“Single mom” used as an insult?!
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Usually men like that don't get away with those comments since most people will attack him. Most single moms are hard working moms, that are providing the best for their child and no one knows anything about the father as to what happened. Those claims are ignorant and they will attack that guy who stated it as an insult 100%. He must have gotten his heart broken by a milf.
aha Liz deleted the comment
@Samantha I’ve tried really hard to reply to these types of comments, but it comes out defensive against my family…. But what I’m saying doesn’t give empowerment to single moms! I told my husband about both of these instances… he was raised by a single mom. And we haven’t come up with anything clever so far. It’s just a sting… because I have help, and they might not. Their road and the baby’s is really hard and I admire single mothers.
@Samantha it was a childish comment… that has crossed my mind a hundred times… but that’s not the impact I want to make. I end up just saying they’re single, lonely and bitter… probably true. But single moms are super heroes!
Why are men arguing with you online?
@👑Jess👑 I don’t remember from the one earlier in the week… the one today who argued with me was from a video from a daughter who posted about her dad. When she woke up, her dad was shoveling snow, washing dishes from the dinner from the night’s dinner his wife had made the night before and bringing his wife hot coffee in bed. There was a comment which said, “ Women and moms do this every day”… and the response was, “What do they want? A cookie?”
I replied to the cookie guy… and I felt it was insulting… because I do everything in my household… and I don’t expect a cookie… but I do appreciate efforts that are done for me. To equate that to a cookie was offensive. And I know single moms have it harder than me.
I felt like it was really mean… it implies taking care of a household is worth nothing… or a cookie.. because we don’t get paid… but we all know it’s much more than that.
That really is a weird insult, like how do women somehow get blamed for men being little boys and leaving their responsibility?? Lol I’ll never understand it….plus some women are single moms bc of unexpected losses unfortunately.
@Victoria I don’t get it either… what if I was a widower… does that give you a card to act like a 🍆
@Victoria I have my deepest sympathy for the woman who have spent money for IVF… I will never understand either
Omg I didn’t even think of the women who choose to do it alone because they don’t want to deal with men! which I totally understand, originally that was my plan in life up until I met my husband.🤦🏽♀️ lol buy sperm & figure the rest out!🤣
@Victoria I get it too!! You’re amazing, Victoria!!
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I know it’s hard to hear. Perhaps say something like ‘yay let’s hear it for the single moms and dads out there 👏. Doing double duty full time! 💪” Keep it simple🤷♀️
@👑Jess👑 it’s hard to ignore when they attack you personally. When your comment originally was about a sandwich.
Just say - I'm not a single mom but I'll take it as a compliment, as it takes an epic woman to fill the role of mom and dad on a day to day basis, you as a shoddy excuse of a man wouldn't be able to do the same!
@Cory lol thanks you too!! Try not to let ignorant ppl get to you on there…Ik easier said than done.
@Kaila epic is right!!!
I think sometimes the best way to call someone out is to do just that. Plain and simple. If you reply saying How’s that a bad thing. Their dumb minds are going to realise they can’t answer your question cause there’s nothing wrong with being a single mom and they’ll just end up feeling pissed and embarrassed