Being different from our parents
As much as I might be close to my mum she is so insensitive about my feelings š„¹ I have to be different. I donāt really know what Iām doing but Iām about to be a mum to two girls . I donāt want the way my older family members specially women are towards feelings to come in contact with my children. I donāt know what Iām trying to ask maybe itās more of an statement but any books or tips please let me know
Itās hard. Your baby girls will come to break everything that you know in the most beautiful way and it will force you to reinvent you. Itās raw, itās magic. I knew I wanted to be a gentle mama and it would go against everything that I knew. Some family members think Iām a softy and Iām spoiling her, but when you see their little faces understand what you mean, or look for you because they know youāre their safe person, everything is worth it. Even though I used to enjoy my familyās company, I keep it minimal to bday parties and special occasions, so itās short and nice. I guess when theyāre older you can explain to them how everyone is different and approach feelings in different ways but they should never feel scared or embarrassed about theirs. If I make any senseš I am proud of you for doing your best ā„ļøš«¶š¼