Ugh I’m lost
How do you stop yourself from comparing yourself to the moms of your step kids.
Not like on a constant thing, but only when it comes to motherhood. I have two under two and then my stepson’s are 15. So I am just starting out becoming a mom and my stepson’s. I’ve been a stepmom for seven years now and it’s hard not to compare myself to my step kids mom.
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Hey mama! It’s totally normal, And it’s part of insecurities we carry as moms. Just remember to give yourself a credit for surviving it all! You’re doing your best and sometimes that’s enough.
Hey there. I think it trickles down to asking your self , when you are comparing yourself to the other mom, what is coming up for you and what insecurity is coming up at that moment. Start there. When we are comparing ourselves to others, or we get triggered by other people’s behavior, it’s rooted in an insecurity. Hope you find the answer and start the work. Feel free to reach out . I have an Instagram @ chingonamom_podcast