Has your partner ever not been supportive over your body changes from gym?

I've been going to the gym since Nov. 2023. I'm finally seeing definition in my shoulders. Got home said I have something amazing to show you. I took my shirt off showed him my gains and was told "that's gross" "soon youll look like a man" and him walking out of the bedroom chest pumped up Lats flared saying "I'm Victoria look at my gains". My feeling as beyond hurt right now. I told him and he's apologized acouple times. But I use to be 340lbs I'm so proud of where I've came from and to finally see my hard work is paying off. I could just cry I told him I'll show someone else how proud I am of myself. I'm at a loss for words. Idc if he finds it gross this is what myself and my body loves to do. It makes me wonder if he will be here when I get where I want to be or if he'll make me feel like shit about myself.