So to be open to freaky things being initiated in bed doesn’t necessarily make you a freak but being the one to physically initiate it does! Very interesting perspective, because I haven’t had many sexual partners but I’ve experienced a lot and if I am to look back I’d say the freakiest person was actually the one guy that initiated the majority of the ‘freaky’ things I’ve experienced so I guess that validates your theory. Interesting 🧐
So I agree with everything @Lianna said except.. I think Just because you're not the one initiating it doesn't mean you're not freaky. I think if you're down for all that freaky stuff, that qualifies you as a freak. If you would do it then you are a freak, I don't personally think being the initiator matters, but that's just my personal thoughts..
Now to define “lady in the street” 😅
I thinks it’s definitely a subjective thing. What is vanilla to one person might be rocky road to another.
What’s freaky to one person is vanilla to another
@Jessica we’re tackling big big topics here 😅😅
I haven't really put much thought into this, but it's a good question! Just off the top of my head, I would say that to qualify as a "freak in bed" you would need to be the one initiating the "freaky" things. Like the unique or potentially weird kinks. For example, maybe you are way into choking, being tied up, and other kinks that would make some other people uncomfortable. If you are the one trying to initiate those things, then I would maybe classify you as a "freak in bed." However, if you are just open to doing anything but aren't initiating much, I wouldn't say you're a "freak in bed." I would just classify you as curious. I am into choking and really want to experience being tied up and I will bring those up to my boyfriend, but I don't necessarily physically initiate either of those things. I personally wouldn't classify myself as a "freak in bed."