Baby daddy has gf but talks to me everyday

OK, so this is my issue my baby daddy tried to hide his new gf at first but the incredible investigator that I am I found out about her now he’s honest, but claims that they are not a real relationship but then I know they are the thing is that I’m in a relationship as well or talking to someone and my guy is not comfortable with the amount of conversation me and my baby father have. I know he tells his girlfriend that he doesn’t really talk to me but I don’t know what to do. Should I cut communication short out of respect for his new relationship or should I continue because we were best friends before this mind you we speak about everything not only our daughter. Any advice?

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Depends how y'all talk really

What about cutting it short for respect of your relationship? It sounds like you’re not fully committed to your current guy.

Well I just started dating him and honestly I told him I wasn’t fully available since I’m a first time mom

Cut his conversation short out of respect for his new relationship and out of respect for any future men you have involved. Long term no partner would accept conversations that involve anything outside of your daughter. It’s not fair that he’s lying to his current girlfriend about how much he talks to you but that’s what men do. They withhold the full truth. But half the truth is still a whole lie. I say dead the unnecessary convo. It will also make it easier for you to move completely on.

I mean if you guys are having inappropriate conversations I would cut it short if it’s not about the child,but also I feel like the new guy should trust you and understand that he’s someone that in your life forever so he would have to get comfortable with the idea eventually

That’s true I kind of figured I tried before and he said I was being immature about it so I needed to just see if it is

I wouldn't have him as a best friend after breaking up with him. That's a slippery slope to cheating imo

Cut it cut it

I’ve learnt from my mistake with my baby daddy that being involved in each other personal lives and being anything more than co parents is a bad idea. And someone will end up getting hurt, unless you’re planning on ever getting back with each other I’d keep conversations short and only related to baby.

@Lexi exactly

I think you should create boundaries. Only communicate when it has to do with your daughter. No calls or texts after a certain time except it’s an emergency and it’s about your daughter. No phone calls expect he wants to speak about your daughter. Eventually he will get the hint