Argument over son not eating food

So our 4 year old hasn’t been well for a few days. He is a fussy eater in general but the past few days he’s obviously eaten less. I gave our son what he asked for lunch, he ends up eating less than half. I sit down to eat. Long story short my partner ends up shouting at him to sit down and eat his food, our boy starts to cry. I know I shouldn’t have interjected but I calmly said “if he doesn’t eat it we can’t force him” Our son then goes to get his water and my partner has a problem with me also saying “as long as he is drinking enough water” Basically my partner says he needs to listen when being told to do something. I get that but the shouting isn’t necessary, am I missing something because he still didn’t eat
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When my daughter isn’t feeling well she eats less too. And I always tell myself as long as she’s drinking enough fluids. Does your son like smoothies? Or maybe even pediasure so he’ll get more calories. Adults seem to forget that littles ones taste buds are constantly changing so one thing they liked last week they may not eat the next and that’s okay. Forcing a child to eat something will cause more issues with picky eating down the road. They’ll eat what they want/need.

Yeah I agree with @Alyssa I had to remind myself that my son isn't going let himself starve. His Mind just isn't on that type of time so if he needs it he will eat it. If he wants it he will eat it.

Have a conversation with your partner away from your child and make him understand that your son is still unwell and simply has no appetite. Ask him about how he feels about food after he’s been sick? And tell him if he’s response is he doesn’t have much of an appetite for a little while that that’s how your son feels? Explain that kids are not stupid, when they are hungry they will eat. But forcing them will only make matters worse for everyone. Hope your son gets better soon x

@Jasmine I have had this conversation with him before I’m afraid explained he is human and when we don’t feel good we don’t necessarily eat either he only seems to understand temporarily but thank you mama x

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