Check the FB groups I mentioned. This questions comes up a lot and it always gets a ton of responses!
Peltzer (especially right now with pumpkin patch) is great. Vitagliano is definitely kid friendly but their wine isn’t great. Same with Lone Shadow. Wilson has a swing set and they have more wine options, still not my favorite. But totally worth it when you need to bring the kiddos along!
Weins and Lorimar are kid friendly too. Some are if you are eating at the restaurant, Altisima, Renzoni..
I really like Ponte. I know Altisma is kid friendly but I know alot aren’t past a certain time