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I had to leave this group because my pregnancy ended in MC. I just found out yesterday I’m pregnant again and it doesn’t feel real! Has anyone else had loss and struggled with coping with reality lol? I’m excited but nervous to get excited because of last time. New due date is in April, but I think I’ll stay in this group because we started out together and it shows me how far we’ve come.
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Sorry you had to go through that previously but what a blessing you’re carrying another baby! Sending all the well wishes of a healthy pregnancy & safe delivery for you & baby as your angel watches over you!😇

I’m so sorry it’s the worse feeling I’m pregnant with my rainbow and the constant anxiety…. Is real . I have times I don’t let myself be happy because of the fear and trauma of last time. I will say having ultrasounds done frequently the first trimester helped a lot with the reassurance even though sometimes as I just hit the second trimester I still get those feelings. I put faith these are our rainbow babies ❤️

Yes, truly as terrible as it sounds… I wholeheartedly think me not being attached to this pregnancy had helped as I am much less stressed due to my many previous MCs. Each ultrasound and heartbeat heard is a godsend and helps so much. They sell Dopplers which I would recommend and maybe doing a private ultrasound between 4 week scans? I’m further along than I have ever been and am just not starting to feel excited (although still nervous). My thoughts have been as long as I’m not heavy bleeding everything seems fine!!

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 praying for a healthy pregnancy

I’m sincerely sorry for your loss and just got back on the app after seeing your message. My prayers are with you and your family! ❤️ I had a miscarriage on the day of my 2nd wedding anniversary on June 4th and I am feeling much better now. I decided to stay in this group and celebrate all the babies being born in January! Sending prayers for you! 🙏

I also had a chemical pregnancy/miscarriage right before getting pregnant with this January baby ❤️‍🩹 I still can’t believe it some days, but now that my bump is getting more visible, it’s such a relief. Praying for you and your rainbow baby too! ❤️

@Melea same. I’m still nervous! That’s normal.

My first pregnancy ended in loss - would’ve been due next month so I’m only now redownloading this app since this second pregnancy is nearly double as far as I was when I lost my first. The grief is unimaginable until you’ve been through it, and it is hard sometimes to not let the anxiety overwhelm me when I try to let myself be excited, but I do still find things to let myself be excited by. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. It’s the worst club to join ❤️

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