Partner sleeping in seperate room.
My partner has never slept in our bedroom since our baby was born 5 months ago with his reason being that he works and shouldn’t be up during the night. We don’t feel close in the slightest anymore and I think it’s because of this. I just want to know how normal/abnormal this is? Thank you
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@Kelsey what's sahm
@Sam stay at home mom
My husband works nights and sleeps days. B4 getting pregnant we discussed what the sleeping situation would be. We rarely sleep at the same time. But it was discussed and agreed upon by me the mama, that I'd be the one to take care of the baby pretty much on my own. It was rough, but I got through it.
My husband and I both work outside the home and we split the night shift. I take the first wake up and he takes the second wake up and so on. Even if I was a SAHM I don’t think it’s fair that only one parent is 100% responsible for the night shift. Being a SAHM is still a job so in my opinion responsibilities should be split 50/50 when both parents are at home.