Second baby

Anyone else thinking that they want another baby soon but at the same time they don’t. Like I want another as I don’t just want one child and I want them to be closer in age but at the same time it’s crazy to think about being pregnant with a toddler who is batsh**crazy about 70 % of the day 😅 Can I hear a list or other pros and cons people have come up with so I can convince myself one way or another to leave it a little longer or go for it.

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We have thought about it and thinking of waiting till our boy is just over 1 before trying so he will be over 2 when baby is born and more independent and understands a little

I’ve got a 4 year old and 5 month old🤍 I PERSONALLY think I have made the best choice as the 4 year gap is amazing. My eldest is more independent, has been at nursery a few times a week, full time school in September. So I’ll get the 1-1 time I had with him with my second born. He also helps so much with baby yet still at a gap where they absolutely adore eachother (for now)😂

I know everyone is entirely different but my sister and sister in law have both had their first and second close to eachother. Then had a 3rd and both said the 3rd has been the best experience as they’ve had the most time with them as it’s been like an only child whilst others were at school x

I want to have another baby I’m just not in a good financial situation for it and my partner wants one but sometimes I think he just says that cause he know I do