I don’t message people back or take calls - only speak to those who I really want to and it’s mainly only my partner and mum. Leave people on read and let those calls go to voicemail, this is your special time! :) or if you wanna be funny, send them this: http://haveyouhadthatbabyyet.com
I've sent a picture of my bump and just said nope, still pregnant and asked them for their predictions for the arrival then said I'll be in touch 🙃
Stand your ground…I told everyone they were not to ask and designated two people that I would update in my own time who were allowed to pass the information on…honestly, it saved me so much peace of mind to not have the constant messages. This is your experience, do what you have to. Your MIL doesn’t get a say ❤️