Is it just me or

Is it just me or does anyone feel as if their significant other is not as excited about having a second baby as you are ? I feel as my bf was somewhat excited for the first baby but hasn’t been very involved in the sense of my daughter only ever wanting me to do anything/everything for her, even if her dad offers to help she denies his help. I just feel that I’m going to have sooooo many more tasks with having my second and also doing everything for my soon to be 3 year old.
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We’re in the same boat. I feel like ultimately it tore us apart. I pray that isn’t the case for you though ❤️

Aww you’re not alone. Have you tried taking to him?

@Tonei I honestly feel like it’s been tearing us apart since my first born

@MJ I have, but he is very close minded person that id never in the wrong

@Yesenia If I tried talking to him and he still held his stance. I would not proceed. Children deserve parents that both want them. It could also spell disaster for the relationship. I wouldn’t try to change his mind. Perhaps the first baby was too much for him or he doesn’t want to remain in the relationship. Sometimes people don’t want more kids because they don’t plan to hang around. People also tend to resent when they’re forced to do things against their will. I hope you can eventually find peace.

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