I just don’t feel excited.

I lost a baby in may, which ended in a week in hospital, surgery and blood transfusion. I found out last week I was pregnant again and today I got my 3+. I just don’t feel excited at all, I’m just expecting the worst!
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I had a miscarriage in June and have been feeling the same, but I’m trying to focus on this being a completely different pregnancy. Just because it happens doesn’t mean it’ll happen again, so many people have positive experiences after a miscarriage and why can’t that be us too! ❤️ I didn’t see a heartbeat last time, we lost them around 6 weeks, so I think with this one when I see a heartbeat I’ll start to feel different. Are there any milestones like that you can focus on?

Seeing the word miscarriage scares the shit out of me I hate seeing the word I’m trying so hard to stay off peanut cus I feel like it affects me too put I’ll pop on every now and again to look on July 2023 group for ideas for my son if you haven’t told anyone I highly recommend you tell at least 1 person you can talk to and trust not to tell anyone eles , I told my mum as my anxiety has been all over the place n since tell her it’s calmed down a lot but then I’ll come on here n see that word n get that awful sick feeling 😢😢😢 but I’m telling myself everything is ok untill it’s not I’m trying to keep myself busy so I don’t go in my phone too much x

@Grace I never got to see a heartbeat either so that’s what I’m praying for this time. I’m planning on booking an early scan in about 2 weeks just for my benefit really as I was so poorly with my miscarriage I don’t want to end up in that situation again! So that’s what I’m focusing on at the minute. Just getting through the next 2 weeks.

I had a stillbirth in 2022 and miscarriage 6 months after I had her. It was an awful year and I’m no stranger to ‘pregnancy doesn’t always have a happy ending’ I now have a beautiful 11 month old boy and I tested positive with what will hopefully be our 2nd living baby last Wednesday. As much as it isn’t ALWAYS happy, it isn’t always bad. But feel what you need to, life after loss is tough 🤍

I had an mmc a year ago, and I’ve just found out I’m pregnant again. It was only at a scan at 11 weeks that I found out my baby had died at 8 and a half… so so worried this time The same thing willl happen again and I won’t know about it

I totally feel you. I had a miscarriage in August and am now pregnant again. All I can do is worry and think negatively. I won’t believe it or be ok until I have a baby in my arms I don’t think. We shall see. I’m hoping excitement and happiness comes for us because I just feel scared right now. Thinking of you x

I’ve had 4 miscarriages and I have a 20 month old, it scares me too, I had one back in May amd pregnant again now and it was horrible I think you know if it’s going to be a good pregnancy or if it’s going to end you always have gut feelings and I have a good feeling about this one please don’t stop trying even if that does happen and please don’t blame yourself it’s the way of your body getting something out that it knows won’t go full term I know it’s so hard believe me and I’m so used to it that I don’t get sad anymore and everyone I know they come to me because I’ve been through it and have no trouble talking because it’s a normal thing for me now and I will always tell them it’s the way of life things happen doesn’t mean you won’t get your rainbow I did and he is the best thing in my life a rainbow baby has so much more meaning because they are a sign your body can do what it’s supposed to please don’t think negative I know it’s easier said than done but you can do this!!!!!🩷🩵

IF this pregnancy don’t go to plan please please please get yourself conceive plus I had a miscarriage my first time being pregnant took me 3 months to get pregnant before I found out about these pills, no word of a lie I took them for 10 days within that 10 days I fell pregnant with my son and he is now 20 months old thriving the best things I’ve ever taken i recommend them to everyone they will not let you down please think positive tho this pregnancy will stick if you need a chat please pm me x

I’ve started bleeding tonight, so I think this is the end of the road for me unfortunately. 😢

Oh bless you I’m so sorry please go and get it checked out though as it could not be what you think I’m so sorry this happened 🤍

Oh my goodness I’m so sorry. Were you able to get checked? I really hope you and baby are ok x

The bleeding only lasted a couple of hours and was pinky but only when I wiped. Overnight there was nothing and all day today it’s been brown. I really don’t know what’s going on. But I have an appt at the epu tomorrow x

I saw my baby and heard its heart beat today. I’ve been prescribed progesterone and have a follow up scan in 2 weeks, so fingers crossed it’s still there then!

How many weeks are you? Or could of been implantation x

@El I make it 6weeks today, the scan was just put down as 5+ so not really sure. Hopefully I will know more in a couple of weeks

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It’s good there is a heart beat tho that’s a good sign x

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