Am I wrong
So I been dating this guy for about a year now and in the beginning it was great we both were working spoiling each other. The connection was very deep nd strong however I wasn’t aware that he was living with his bm nd still involved with her other than co parenting so I ended things but he begged me for another chance so I forgave him and he promised that they were strictly co parenting . But the problem I have now is this man has no self drive lack of confidence within himself he thinks negative about everything. I done tried several times to help build him up set up jobs for him but he made every excuse so I’m bout to start my journey as a police officer and I just bought me a car I’m saving up for a house but as usual he don’t want to better himself and I honestly can’t be with someone like that I have to better myself for my kids I just don’t know the best way of ending things I feel he will play the guilt trip
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If he’s just gonna guilt trip you, tell him it’s over and block him lol if he does some other weird things to reach you beyond that then take the proper precautions but there’s no point in hearing him out if you are done with him. There’s nothing to talk about at that point. Cut and dry.
You found out after a year he was living with his child's mother? Also it sounds like you feelings towards him changed once you found this out. You didn't see all these negative aspects about him within the first few months?
Girl run! All I see is 🚩
You really don’t even deserve to give him an explanation at this point
You’re just wasting time with him. And he sounds like he is emotionally manipulating you. Trust me I have went through the same thing and now I regret it. Not your job to build up anyone else’s confidence. And when you become a police officer he is going to see you as competition and not as a partner. It’s really draining.