I felt like this most times after TTC for years and years , many losses and doing IVF 🤣 And sometimes I think if I say it out loud some people will think I'm crazy 🤦 it's perfectly natural it changes everything and not to mention all the hormones running through you. I don't think anyone could understand other than a mother, it changes/takes over your body, changes your first priority and turns your relationship into a family which is exciting but soo overwhelming. Believe me all those feelings will go away when your baby is here it's a completely different love that you will wonder how you did without it so long xx
I honestly felt like this through my whole pregnancy and I felt so guilty for feeling it. I had moments of excitement and extreme happiness and then I had moments of extreme ‘sadness’ where I would worry about my life changing and how things would never be the same. My little girl is now 10 weeks old and I love her so much. But life is hard and has changed massively but the love I have for her instantly makes everything better. X
I feel exactly the same! We have been trying for almost a year and the initial relief of the positive test and happiness was lovely but I am naturally a glass half empty person and I spend a lot of time thinking of the downsides (changes to my body, changes to how we live our lives, finances, freedoms etc) I am so over the moon that isn’t happening and it’s what we both what but we have to remember the changes for us are alot more significant then they are for our partners so feeling more anxious about it is understandable! Xx