A guy your dating and really like says he dated a coworker (still his coworker) and was honest with you and said they are friends and coworkers only, what do you do?

Sometimes they have to travel together for work
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This would depend on how seriously they dated and how closely they work and if they slept together or just went on a couple of dates. I probably wouldn't continue the relationship if they seriously dated and slept together and work very closely as that's not something I'm comfortable with, and I wouldn't ask someone to change their job over a reason like that

How long ago did they break up? Why did they break up? How long did they date? How serious was it? It IS possible to fully move on or realize it isn't going to work and have a mutual friendship. But if that is the truth, YOU need to be ok with it or you need to walk away. Don't bring trust issues and insecurities into the relationship until there is a reason for it.

I dated/slept with a coworker prior to meeting my husband and kept working with him while dating hubs. I never once was tempted by the coworker. It was awful sex and the chemistry entirely disappeared afterwards. It’s entirely possible that they are friends. There’s probably a good reason they aren’t dating anymore. But it really depends on who broke it off and why.

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