Thank you. I read so much online and i think that’s what’s making my anxiety, even worse. It’s upsetting because he thinks it’s OK and also because this isn’t the route that I wanted to take, I really tried to work with him. But when I thought about it, our two children are the only children that he has and he’s failing to take care of them. He can he just doesn’t want to and I should not have to give him so many chances for not taking care of his responsibility because i do it everyday.
Does he have a normal job? Not under the table? I'm not sure why you're not getting payments if you know where he's working. What has your case worker done about it?
What she said ⬆️ make sure you get the payments deferred from his employer from now on
I work in child support in OH, so of course it's going to vary from state to state. When we refer a case for contempt of court, typically the judge orders a 30 days in jail OR pay a "purge" amount(usually an extra 20% each month until arrears are paid). Of course, if he's already fallen behind, this amount may already be a past due charge. That past due charge would turn into the purge charge. If he still doesn't pay, the case would be referred back to the court for a trial to impose the 30 day jail sentence.