What was your partner’s reaction to second pregnancy?

We have been trying to get pregnant so he would be ecstatic. Honestly we wouldn’t have had sex during the fertile window if we weren’t both on board

@Liz he said we could actually try in January. It took me over 2 years to get pregnant with my first, and we decided to go the “if it happens, then it happens” route since we didn’t think I’d get pregnant again so quickly (it took about 6 months. But he’s been upset at the thought of it all day

Maybe he's just worried about the stress of bringing home another kid? You've got another 8 ish months before baby comes .... Though

( I say 8 ish.... Ayden was a few weeks early)

It sounds like he’s really manipulating you then omg. I feel like he needs a readjustment and to not say those things to you.

Talk to him. Ask him why he thinks you shouldn't keep it

@Elizabeth I talked to him more about it last night, and he said it wouldn’t be fair to our son to take all of the attention away from him. He knows my views on abortion (I’m okay with it if it’s necessary, but if you just simply don’t want it and want to party or whatever I don’t think it’s right). But he suggested an abortion anyways. I’m now very conflicted. I don’t want to do that, but now I can’t stop thinking about how unfair it would be to our son.

Why would it be unfair it’s over a 2 year age gap???

@Liz that’s my mindset too. I don’t feel like it would be, but he made feel pretty guilty about the fact that all the attention won’t be on our son.

I’m really sorry, he really seems like he’s messing with your body (for telling you he was ready then changing his mind), your mind and your heart. I think he’s being really immature and I do not know why he would agree to trying just to turn around and gaslight you.