Anti vaccination

You gone have to lie.. that’s what did now my kids are both unvaccinated I told mine that I wanted to go on delayed schedule to allow them to build their immune system before vaccines and just never did it go to Dr appointments by yourself sign the waver

Oh wait you want to vaccinate my bad lol I read it wrong

Which vaccines is he concerned about and why? If it’s clear that he has not done substantial research from reputable sources, I wouldn’t have any conversations. There’s no benefit to talking about such an important thing based on just his feelings or anecdotal experiences.

You can always choose to do a delayed vax schedule, it could be an in between.

My bf already knew not to play that with me bc im a nurse and Im all for vaccines. I can’t only imagine how difficult it is not to be on the same page. Maybe yall can talk to the provider together and come to a common ground.

@Amber he is concerned about all of them saying that the baby will naturally build antibodies to whatever comes his way

@Kiarra girl he’s saying just because we got our childhood shots then our antibodies get passed to the baby so the baby will be good

@Destiny As a nurse I can say that is absolutely not true lol. The baby has y’all’s DNA yes and may have the antibodies if you got the RSV vaccine during pregnancy or may even have built up some antibodies from Covid if you had Covid during pregnancy (I had it during pregnancy) but baby that’s about it. Yeah I think you guys should have a talk with the provider so they can explain it to him better. If I got vaccinated as a child I believe my child is just as good and I will get the same for them too.

Why didn't you discuss this with him before having kids with him? I would never have a child with a anti-vaxxer. I cannot nor will I ever respect anyone who is anti-vax....

@Breaha this is our surprise baby. We did have previous conversations and he wasn’t as against it. But now he has switched to wanting a more holistic route

You do whats best for that baby THAT YOU CARRIED 9 MONTHS… the law is also on your side so go to a courthouse, file some paperwork and vaccinate your child IF THAT IS WHAT YOU FEEL IS SAFEST. Imagine the grief you’ll feel if you don’t listen and that baby has ANY kind of issues.

Btw- I’m not even all for vaccines. I’m just ALL FOR the mother who nearly d*ed having the kids having the final say!