will this be evidence in the court for him being an unstable parent??

Hi so im trying to divorce my fathers son and get full cust (as much as I can since its so hard) he wasn’t there in pregnancy hasn’t been there or paid for anything this whole time, my son is 5 months now, he took a 3 month break from seeing him and saw him for Christmas. Question is, if he fights in court are these good things to use to prove he is not stable to be a parent and should not have time with my son?? I’m gonna add more screenshots underneath, also I am in AZ if that helps specify law more.

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Also update so the other “kms” lines are on phone call recordings lol but yeah it’s a bunch of that, him saying he wanted to hit me, him actually ALMOST hitting me and then pussing out in the end saying he went to “silence” me and lots of screenshots of him going to see my son then canceling bc he couldn’t

Yes and no. 1) a judge would want to know why you waited to report 2) if you report and get an OOP it may only include your name not your children 3) at most he will get supervised visits for a small time and then get unsupervised visits because he hasn’t made a threat to the kids

Yea nearly impossible to keep dad from never seeing the kids

Sorry, I forgot to add, that the yes part, in that the only way really to stop visitation is he would have to make threats or harm the child. And it still must be well documented. With a police report AND a report from CPS. Or kidnapping the child after a custody order has been establish and he breaks it and runs with the child. That’s the only way I have found.

@Wendi so I have already turned in the paperwork for divorce and the parenting plan, with the parenting plan time I put “on Sundays for reasonable timeframe requested by party b (father) and agreed upon by party a (me)”. I didn’t put supervised visits because I was told I couldn’t be the one “supervising” or I would have to pay someone from the state to supervise his time with my son. I don’t think ex is actually attempting anything he never has he just gets extremely overwhelmed and then says this shit and punches the wall or yells.

We got into an argument in April (was still preggo at the time) and he went to push my face in the window then I blocked his hand, I stopped all contact with him for a while after that, then my son was born and we reconnected again for a bit, in August (right after bb was born) I tried to file for an order of protection against him they said it would only be against me not my son I still agreed and the judge literally denied it and said him attempting to hit me was not enough reason for an order of protection lol. I felt really defeated. He hasn’t tried anything since but I also don’t live with him and I barely see him. I have screen shots of him saying he wanted to bash my skull in, to the judge it was still not enough.

@Wendi also what do you mean by waiting to report? Like report the suicidal accusations? The attempted hitting??? Suicide anytime he says that I ask him if he wants me to call CBI (community bridges) there is a division for mental health and they will take you if you say you want to die. So I just tell him that and then he shuts up. If he says it again im just gonna call bc fuck these ppl holding suicide over ppls heads when they really don’t mean it. He’s said that shit since the day I told him I was pregnant and hasn’t still.