It sounds like you're doing everything you can. Keep taking him to the hospital if you're worried. They might still send you home but keep going whenever you're concerned about bub. I'm not sure if it works with bubs with whooping cough but running the hot water in the bathroom and letting it get really filled with steam and then sitting in the steam helps bubs with croup
Iām so sorry that this has happened to you and your baby. It sounds awful. No mamma wants to go through that. I agree with Emily keep taking him to hospital. I donāt have any experience with this unfortunately, but thatās the best you can do. And if your baby is really unwell push for them to admit him. Perhaps give the Child Health Nurse a call for advice too. On a public health note, any time youāre offered a vaccination for free, take it. Vaccinations are so important for protecting everyone against nasty illnesses. And itās because of vaccination that those illnesses are uncommon. Unfortunately Covid times and the shock of it all has given rise to misinformation in this space. I know you did the best you could with what you knew at the time. Iām just saying this so that you might feel a little more informed for next time. I hope things get better for you very soon!!
I canāt give you alot of advice on vaccinations or flu like symptoms ( my nearly two year old isnāt even in daycare) how ever I know what itās like to stress over the well being and health of your bubba, youāre not alone mumma! My dms are always open, when youāre feeling alone or in situation where you need someone elseās point of view š you sound like youāre doing everything right and doing the best you can for him. You are doing an amazing job with getting him the right care, the hospital is your best bet with advice , so just continue following the advice from them! Head up mumma, try (easier said then done) after yourself too, you canāt look after him if youāre not in good health either , be patient with yourself and him . Iād recommend tho , keep him away from people as much as you can even when he starts to get better !! Wishing you the best of luck and all my love n support to the both of you