Pregnant with baby Number 3

Really scared and worried as I have a just turned 2 year old, a 8 month old and now finding out I’m pregnant again! I have been on the pill throughout and caught on. In recent conversations with my partner he said that if I was to become pregnant again I would have to chose between him or baby… I do not believe in abortions so I don’t know what to do!!

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That’s a horrible thing to say from him

@Laura I really don’t know what to do

I cannot tell you unfortunately but you definitely need to have a discussion, but you cannot judge your decision from your partner alone, it has to be your decision as well that your happy with or else you will forever regret the choice you make. If you were to terminate because of his choice alone you may be filled with regret and resentment towards him going forward. Or if you kept it and unfortunately lost him in the process you need to weigh that decision up.. but someone who speaks such a way to you does not deserve your time or energy in my opinion

@Laura I’m going to sit and speak to him about it. I just know if I went and they asked me if I was sure I wanted to terminate id say no! I really want a 3rd baby, I feel like I would regret it and resent him so much x