child support

so my babydaddy disclaimed our daughter and hasn’t seen her in over a month. has never provided for her not once since she’s been born. i’m taking him for child support but his other baby momma insisted that if he is paying child support then he’s gonna want to see her and i don’t want that to happen. i have the proof of him saying that he doesn’t want her and that he’s not financially stable enough for her. is it possible that the judge will grant him time with her? i don’t want her to go with him because if he already admitted he didn’t want her and the only reason he wants to now is because he has to pay for her. i think it’s messed up and bs
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If he’s paying child support it comes with visitation rights

Yes it is possible unless you can prove he is unsafe. You could ask for supervised visits to start or visits for only a short time if your daughter isn’t familiar with him. Does he see his other children and is he on child support for them? It could be a lie he told his other BM to get her to not put him on child support.

@Tashina even if i have the proof of him not wanting her and wanting to sign his rights over?

@Christina they live together and he sees his boys every single day. he’s a manipulator and a pathological liar. he only comes around when child support is brought up. he puts his relationship with women before our daughter and i think it’s gross

It doesn’t matter what he’s said in the past they won’t take his rights over that. You can’t get child support without him getting visitation unless he’s a threat to the child

i’m not sure where you live but in the uk i’m pretty sure that paying child support does not mean it comes with visitation rights. i found this little snippet of an article from a couple mins researching!! i hope it helps you and you get what you can out of the situation!! - my messages are always open if you need x ‘Some parents think that paying child maintenance automatically grants them the right to see their child. This is not true. Visitation and contact arrangements are a separate legal matter.’

You can show how little he’s visited her and try to make a case but they won’t care about text messages if that’s the proof you have. It’d be better if he was a video or phone call of him saying it. And even then they will still probably grant visitation if you can’t prove he’s violent or neglectful

I think it’s up to the child and court to decide. It sucks but as long as it’s fair then u should be good

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