who’s in the wrong

So my bf gets home from work this morning and I have our son asleep right next to me. As soon as he gets home, I get up so I can get ready for work and he asks me if I can make him soup. So I say hold on. Our son starts to wake up and my bf grabs him but he’s still crying at this point. So as I make him a bottle, i ask my bf to feed him and he says no. So I put the bottle right next to my bf to feed him and he says no and he throws the bottle hitting my legs. So I said to him well I have to get ready for work I’m on a time crunch. He’s been rude since the moment he got home. I accidentally left out the taco shells making them hard, and he’s over here saying not to talk to him so that was the first thing and now this. He’s just been bickering to me and as soon as I was fed up with his little behavior I’m over here telling him to stfu. Like just stop. He’s over here wanting an apology now like 😑

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Sorry but wtf😀 He threw the bottle at you???

It sounds like you both need to take some time for yourselves! Parenting is hard, especially working as well. If you have any family near by I would say plan a day, maybe on the weekend when you both have a day off and see if the family member can watch you son. Do something you both love and really spend quality time together. Give each other grace. Parenting is rough!

@Laura he said he’s not apologizing for throwing the bottle at me

How old is your little one

@Layla Caron he’s 11 months old. I ended up calling off from work because he’s been sick for a couple days and gonna take him into to see his doctor

Beyond ridiculous. There’s no excuse for his behavior at all. Parenting is team work and so is a relationship . You definitely do deserve an apology and you guys need to have a conversation and sit down about how things can or need to be changed .

@Audrey yeah unfortunately there’s no team work. I ask for help from him and there’s always an excuse. I was gonna leave my sick kid home and have my bf watch him but I feel better knowing he’s in better care if i stay home with him today so.

You need to leave. It’s a lot easier doing things on your own honestly

@Audrey what’s even scarier is the fact that I’m 29 weeks pregnant. So we’re expecting another one. When I’m home from work or if it’s the weekend, he leaves it up to me to take care of our 11 month old. The diaper changes, feeding him, naps, etc. but of course when I’m at work he has no other choice but to do those things .

My ex was like this, It’s a tough situation to be in. If the behaviour is bad with your first baby it most likely won’t change after the second comes along. Hopefully he can straighten himself out so it doesn’t end in a separation cause that’s hard in the beginning especially if you have no supports. Wishing you best of luck with everything

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