Pregnant after miscarriage

I had a miscarriage in September 2024, since then we have found out I’m pregnant, we have know for a little over a week and I’m currently 5 week. I just feel very scared and worried and every cramp or pain makes me anxious, I feel like I’m unable to be happy about this or enjoy it over the fear of something going wrong again. Has anyone else ever felt like this? I just don’t want to get my hope ups, no one tells you how scary it is to get pregnant after a miscarriage x

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Hey congratulations! I also had a miscarriage in September at 11 weeks & im 4 weeks 6 days with rainbow baby questioning every ache & twinge! If you’re really concerned contact your EPU I’m sure they will be reassuring!! Here’s to our September 25 bubbas 🌈

Feel free to message me, we can go through this together 💗💙

I was exactly feeling this way I had a miscarriage in September 2023 and I got pregnant again 1 year afterwards,so I was so scared too but one thing that helped overcome it was prayers,worship songs. Also making sure I took my vitamins daily,folic acid,vitamin E till my 12th week,vitamic B,omega 3. I’m halfway gone and nothing wrong has happened.Nothing will happen to your bundle of joy. Just Relax

I'm in the same situation I'm currently now 11weeks pregnant but even still I'm worried and still checking myself for any bleeds, I don't think the feeling goes away. But what I have been doing is taking 75mg of asprin every 2 days my doctor told me it helps keep the oxygen in the blood something the baby needs and it's work for me so maybe give that a try too xx congratulations too xx

@Terri I'm 11 weeks pregnant and even still I'm very paranoid about pains etc I can't even enjoy my pregnancy because of the though of having another mc, I went for my 1st midwife appointment and I even asked her when is my safe time in which she couldn't really tell me so it gave me more anxiety.

I’m totally prepared to feel like this until I’m in theatre & the baby is in my arms!

Thankyou all for your advice and kind words, it’s nice to know I’m not alone in feeling like this. Congratulations to all of yous as well and i hope things continue to go well for yous🥰 I see my midwife next week so I’ll talk to her about my concerns and mention the aspirin and see if that’s something I should maybe try, it seems the worry is something that we can’t escape x

Sorry for your loss but congratulations on your little rainbow! I’m 35 weeks after 2 losses and honestly what you’re feeling is exactly how I felt and still do. It never leaves and mentally is so much harder than any pregnancy symptom itself. I’d be pulling over at the side of roads convinced I felt blood coming out I’ve never been able to be positive this whole way but once you get to the stage of little kicks and movements it certainly helps loads! I didn’t tell anyone I was pregnant till about 5 months and even then it’s only immediate family I told. I don’t tend to bring it up and that’s just how I cope because if I keep talking about it I’ll keep worrying. At home with my husband is different though I’m very open with him and talk about my concerns etc. Sending you lots of love and luck for your baby 🤍