Following for tips! Mine is fine if I pre load the spoon but we're no where near independently using cutlery yet We're still firmly in the phase of flinging and dropping things on the floor so maybe when she grows out of that she'll be ready
My lg can confidently scoop her food and feed herself with a spoon, we all eat together so I think it’s just a case of role modelling but I don’t think she’s ready for a knife and fork yet.
My little boy is currently going through the stage also with chucking and dropping things. He will put the spoon or fork to his mouth if I put food on it but also not anywhere near independently using cutlery.
I have a 1 year old and he loves holding his own spoon and fork I always put the food on it for him and he dose it himself