Alcohol
I’ve been out with this guy 4 times, we’ve been getting on really well. We’ve great chemistry and conversation.
I’ve noticed he posts on his story he drinks a lot with his friends or with his dinner.
I don’t drink alcohol basically ever, maybe 3 times a year at weddings etc..
I brought it up the last time we were out and asked him about his drinking habits, he told he has at least a pack of beer a day after work.
I was shook to say the least, and I expressed that to him (with my face and words)but he didn’t seem to think it was a whole lot.
I asked him if he thought about quitting or at least cutting down he said she tried but wasn’t able to.
I’ve grown up around older people always drinking in my family and I certainly don’t want the same for myself and my children.
But at the same time we get on so well so it’s such a shame, but I just know I can’t continue on.
Anyways how do I break it to him
Exactly like that. I stayed with someone who drank more than I was comfortable and it ended up being the catalyst to our breakup. You’ve got this!