Soo burnt out
Because my husband works (doesn’t support us, I have to pay 50/50 out of my own money) he thinks that’s his one and only job. His job and a dad and husband is non existent. I’m currently a SAHM and everything falls on me. I’m so fucking burnt out I could cry. I feel like fucking off for the weekend and leaving him to it but I’m worried my kids won’t get their needs met properly or not to an adequate standard so I don’t want to leave them. I haven’t had time alone since my oldest was born 2.5 years ago. I adore my kids but I’m sick of everyone needing me and me doing everything for everyone. I just want to not be needed for a while.
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I’m so sorry to hear this! This all just doesn’t add up to me, in my humblest opinion. You’re a SAHM, taking care of everyone (including the house I assume?) how and why do you have to go 50/50? And how is he not showing up as a dad and husband? You need to have a serious conversation with your husband. And please, take care of yourself. Remember, if your glass is empty, you will not be able to pour into your kids’
You’d be surprised , when you leave for a weekend he’ll probably care for them well enough but relies on you and acts useless to get you to do more. Sounds like a lazy guy.
I’d say leave him with the kids but have someone on stand by? Or have him go to family with them so u can make sure they are looked after