Questioning everything!

Please tell me this is a common feeling and it will go. I’m 10weeks with our first baby but everything my partner does annoys me now and I’m sitting here getting upset at things and questioning weather I made the right life decisions having his child. I feel so guilty feeling like this but everytime he does something where I feel like he’s wrong I question weather he’s my person. I never had any of these thoughts before pregnancy,
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Are you post partum? Its normal. I wanted to beat up my husband those days. Its frustrating but gets better after a while. When you recover, i recommend gym to calm your mind and release the negative energy there. Also don’t forget to take a break from everything and do something relaxing

It's entirely normal. I questioned it all too and still do at 29w. Moods up and down with hormones it's perfectly normal. There's a lot of big decisions and unknown x

Girl, it's normal. Pregnancy has me HATING everyone at some point. Most of the time it's my mother-in-law. But my husband pisses me off almost daily.

I’ve literally just drove to the local shopping centre to get away from my husband before I commit murder, I’m hoping it’s just hormones too and that it’ll pass! Sending love ❤️

I very nearly broke up with my partner after our first child. Those first 6 months were rough. But I’m so glad we pushed through and now we are an absolute power team with our second baby!

I must be not normal all I wanted my entire pregnancy and postpartum was my husband, I feel so clingy to him constantly and cry about how much I love him 😂😂

@Ames don’t get me wrong all I want to do is be attached to him but then there is the polar opposite an hour later 🤣

@Ames 😂 I have these moments too, but he does dumb shit that pisses me off and ruins those moments pretty quickly. I'm having twins and at one point I was thinking my mood swings towards him meant there was a boy and a girl, nope, two boys 😂 I was just clingy with him with my first and pissed off at everyone else 🤦🏻‍♀️

What are the things that annoy you? Are they trivial (loud eating, leaving socks on the floor etc) or is he treating you poorly? When I was pregnant with my first I know I was horrible to my husband, I couldn’t stand anything he did and it made me feel insane! Every little thing would wind me up, and he still says now that I was so unkind to him during that pregnancy (it’s the hormones). No excuse for my behaviour, but everything would piss me off 😂 I’m 16 weeks into my secondary pregnancy now and so far he hasn’t pissed me off as much lol

@Jade I think it’s more things where I thought he would be more attentive. I’m suffering really bad with morning sickness and after I’ve been sick he doesn’t ask if I’m ok because it’s become such a norm now that I’m sick. I had a day full of sickness other day and he didn’t offer to make dinner. Just little things like that! I think I’m being too sensitive but everything is getting me

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