am i overreacting?

then when he noticed me get offended he said i should “be lucky my man would want to pay for the surgery” ask my life i’ve only been noticed bc im a little b chunkier. but why date a chunkier woman if all you want to do is make her a certain size? he never calls me beautiful asks i never feel comfortable naked around him and he just called me insecure

Quite literally tell him to never make a comment like that again. If he still mentions insecurity then it’s the boot. Because his goal is to make you feel loved and valued. Not to bring you lower so that he can feel like you won’t leave him.

Oh. My. God. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND A GODDESS YOU ARE LITERALLY CREATING LIFE WHILE HE DOES WHAT? JUST SIT THERE AND SWEAT LIKE A DOG! you most definitely are NOT overreacting. He doesn’t deserve you. HE should feel lucky you’re giving him the time of day. This is abuse honey it’s mental abuse he’s making you feel a certain way so he can control you and keep you basically tied to him by saying “Be lucky any man” no. You deserve a man who loves you for you beautiful curves and all. Aphrodite has curves and a tummy and she’s the goddess of beauty. He’s just a crusty dusty man who gets off on putting you down from what it sounds like. You deserve better and my heart breaks for you :(

Sorry but he would be out! No man should make you feel that way!

@Madi thank you for this i really needed this. all morning i been starving myself thinking ill b better off skinny and malnourished and in hate feeling this way bc baby has to eat.

Please don't listen to him, all about you and baby right now and you do what you need to do to have a healthy you and baby 😊

Oh honey :(( don’t starve yourself for his eyes you ignore him you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are as long as you are healthy and baby is healthy that’s all that matters, looks are only skin deep and only last so long, it’s your soul and personality that’ll leave a mark on this world even when you’re gone and he most definitely doesn’t deserve your beautiful precious love, time, and tears. I will throw year old rotten eggs at this man no correction this boy. He’s ugly inside and out and it shows in the way he treats you :((

I’d be showing him the damn door

You shouldn't be with him. You said in an earlier comment, why be with a chunkier girl if you don't like it or something like that. He is with you because he is a narcissist that wants to beable to control you by putting you down, making you feel worthless, telling you you will never find better and then he will be set knowing you will never leave. Leave now before you are mentally or financially dependent on that guy

Body shaming a pregnant woman is just immature & low.. You deserve to be with a man who treats you like a Queen 🫶🏻