I’m getting induced Sunday and we’ve told no one for this exact reason! With our first little boy we told everyone what day I was getting induced and right up until he was born it was constant messages and phone calls asking if he was born yet and I am not dealing with it this time either!
We’ve decided not to tell anyone when I’m in labour for this reason, they ruin it for themselves 😂
This would drive me nuts - it did in my first pregnancy with people constantly asking from around 37 weeks onwards 🥲 I’d have to say something to them to get them to stop asking as it’d do my head in! Obviously something polite and along the lines of ‘don’t worry about ringing each night, we’ll of course let you know things start moving along’ but I’d just have to put a stop to it for my own sanity as I know how much it bugs me (even though people mean well!) 🥲
I hear you and I completely understand! Sometimes it feels like they are far too involved and although it’s coming from a place of love it can feel like such pressure and occasionally (more than often) rather annoying