Is there something silly you just wouldn’t settle for in a relationship before you met your S/O now? Or just in general if you are single?

See snoring would have been it for me too! My husband didn’t snore until recently and I consider smothering every now and then 😩

I didn’t want to be with someone who liked an out of state sports team and wanted to raise their child to root for that team too. 😂

@Jay I felt this post at the pits of stomach cuz omg my Husband snores. And usually I slap 👋🏾 him a little in his sleep cuz he also grinds his teeth. It’s the worst noise I’ve ever heard! I’ve tried to ask nicely and nothing has worked so I’ve resorted to violence. It’s so funny cuz when he wakes up so frightened & I act like I have no idea what is going on 😇 So the other day he asked me “hey do u hit me when I’m sleeping” & I was like “mmmhh what makes u say that babe” lol 🤭 “he was like idk all of sudden I’m dreaming😴 & then I’m not” lol 😂 hahahaha he is a very heavy sleeper & I’m not, his snoring can keep me up all night!

A gamer 100%

Men who can’t dress. If you don’t know wearing gym shorts to a funeral tacky then .. idk who is gonna have you

If the baby daddy don't work out now I'm not dating a gamer ever again 🤣

Definitely voting gamer

Probably a gamer. I wouldn’t mind the snoring as much coz there are nose devices these days to help and it’s not really his fault 😂 (hubby only snores when he’s exhausted or drunk which is rare) I can’t marry an introvert, anti social or homebody though. Gaming a lil I can do with but not a gamer who won’t do anything BUT game that’ll do my head in. I wanna be out and about seeing people doing things going new places enjoying the sun and water and breeze and what life has to offer, if he can’t keep up then he’s not my man unfortunately. I’m not a bear, I don’t hibernate 😂

I was trying to avoid attachments to men entirely before I met my current husband lol

Oh I thought of one! Obsessive sports fans I definitely couldn’t date

A football fanatic, I’m sorry I don’t know how people deal with it, really we are justifying letting men leave family dinner on Christmas to go sit in the other room and watch “the game”. Or put the game on at every social function/stay home to watch the game on Sunday afternoons. I don’t mind the occasional game but it just seems so excessive and I don’t want the tv in my house going 24/7.

There are quite a few because luckily my husband has never done em lol Obsessive sports fan Gamer Momma’s Boy Excessive spender 🤑 Smoker/drinker Just to name a few My husband snores and it sucks. He has a cpap now and it’s awful. I sleep on the couch and have since I was pregnant 2 years ago lol

A non worker or a gamer 🤢

Am I the only one who doesn’t hear the snoring lmfao. I must have the ability to tune it out cause mine snores loud as heck and it doesn’t affect me. If I was single I would not be able to be with a gamer

My husband is a gamer, but it’s his job too and I’m extremely blessed, have a beautiful life and can be a SAHM. His snoring though keeps us separate at night. It’s sad!

I’m exactly the same before kids I dealt with insomnia a lot or just really struggled to sleep and snoring would keep me awake all night I’ve always known even if it was true love I could never be with a snorer because I just wouldn’t cope

@Jasmin girl I have done that too 🤣🤣🤣 he once told me just wake me up when I snore. I was waking him up so often he was like ok never mind lol now I’ll just go to the couch 🤣

Obsessive sports fan for me. My fiance has sleep apina so he snores sometimes without his machine mainly

i don’t hear the snoring at all either! @Alyson

& i vote no for gamers too, a massive ick 🤢

@Alyson I’m a light sleeper. I wake up to my dog snoring 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ I even used to wake up to my neighbor showering in the morning

@Jay https://www.facebook.com/share/v/18tmxq6brd/?mibextid=wwXIfr This video always gets me everytime! Nowadays I give him a good wank 👋🏾 in the face because after trying to nudge him or change his sleeping position which never works bt it’s like I feel so bad for smacking him cuz I gotta literally act like “Awe no babes not u having another nightmare!” lol bt deep down Im like girl u had to do what u had to do to ensure u get the sleep u deserve! Cuz this human being next to I jus doesn’t care 🙄

@MIA❤️‍🔥 lol and mine snores so bad. I only know that because he can fall asleep within .2 seconds and the kids even mention how they can hear it in their rooms sometimes. I sleep like a baby. LOL @Christina🤱🏼🍂☕️♈️ tbh I wish I was a light sleeper. It scares me sometimes that anything or anyone can walk in my house and I’ll never know. Mine is a light sleeper though and I can’t even sniffle without him waking up so I know that must suck.

@Jasmin “give him a good wank in the face” made me spit out my coffee LOL I know what you meant though 😂

I use ear plugs for snoring, so it doesn't bother me anymore. But smoking/drugs not thinking or consulting me with buying big expensive things without thinking of bills/rent etc.

i don’t like guys who can’t take care of their own things. because my brother is “that guy”. throwing socks and stuff here and there 😤 thank god my husband is not at all like this.

For me it was a gamer, a dog person, and a footy fan 😂 so grateful my husband is none of those!

I don't think mine falls under the silly category but even as a teenager I would never date someone who smoked. Now as an adult i also add I could never date a gamer, or a car guy lol. My husband plays games occasionally but is not a gamer.

This probably sounds stupid. But I SERIOUSLY did not want to get with anyone who was in law enforcement or military (any branch) I grew up with both and it ruined a lot for me growing up and I just didn’t want to deal with that going forward and I didn’t want to settle for being that spouse and deal with deployment with kids. And yet… here I am 6 years deep with the LOML who is a captain in the army and military police LMAO. But we handle things way different than when I grew up with. 🤣 but he’s going on his second deployment soon 😭

@Karagin I couldn’t date anyone who smoked weed or cigarettes either and I told my fiancé that before I got with him or even drank. My fiancé has a drink every now and then but never excessive and only for social situations.

Ohhh-😳 unfortunately I snore, not sure if it’s genetics but since becoming a mum I do snore more than I used to. I have severe dust allergy and hayfever so any little speck of dust will set me off into a sneezing fit, disturbs my day and night. My nose gets blocked so easily. Ugh😖 even black pepper and spices Makes me sneeze A little too much. 😅 but your question, I’m not too sure because preference has changed I have been with my s/0 for 10 years. I can say a lot 🤣🥲

Someone who doesn’t ski/snowboard and doesn’t like winter :) also, someone who doesn’t drink (not excessively) and someone who’s religious.

@🩷 Patience 🩷 I said the same thing to my now husband when he started dating in high school

Mine isn’t “silly” (more so shallow 🥴) but I used to exclusively date wealthy men. They were pretty easy to come by where I lived (NYC). I wouldn’t entertain anyone who wasn’t very financially well off & I said I’d only ever marry rich lol, and then I actually experienced falling in love & there went that 😂 My fiancé does well but we aren’t rich by any means.