Am I being unreasonable

I expressed my concern to my partner about booking the 3 handymen coming to paint our house tomorrow on the day he's off work. I dont feel comfortable with them in our house without him at home. We are new in the area and I know no one here. I have no idea where he booked them from. The first thing he said was that I was making his life difficult.

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Absolutely not! My partner wouldn’t even consider asking me to do something I was uncomfortable with. Stand your ground keep yourself safe 🤗

I m sorry to hear you have been put in this position. I would not feel happy about the situation either, is there someone a family member who could come and stay so you are not alone? If you plan it for another time X

Absolutely not if your not comfortable with something he should be able to respect that and work with you to make you feel comfortable there is simple solutions to solve this anxiety such as rearranging the day to when he’s there taking a look at the company yourself or arrange it so someone can be there with you. Stand your ground if your not comfortable with something don’t stay quiet speak up hun x

Completely understand your concern and no you’re absolutely not being unreasonable!

Definitely not unreasonable. I rarely have workmen in my house alone unless it’s an emergency. I ask my mum to come round if my husband can’t be here.

Absolutely not, my partner wouldn’t even consider having strangers round while he’s not in. Our landlord wouldn’t even be allowed in while I’m home alone, he either makes sure he is home or rearranges for a day he is.

How is his life difficult by booking handymen on a day he is at home? Some of these men though