Pregnant but scared, need advice

I know how you feel. I’ve just got over a miscarriage however only spotted for 4ish days so not a full blown bleed so not even sure what I’m waiting for anymore. This is my third loss in 5 months, had 2 missed miscarriages at 9-10 weeks. Not even sure how I’d react if I got pregnant again. Sorry for your losses x

@Courtney Davis thanks, I hate that I can’t feel excited anymore when I see those two lines! I just wish I knew what’s wrong with me 😣

I bet there isn’t anything wrong with you girl, I just think of it as there was something obviously wrong otherwise my body wouldn’t miscarry them and that it was safer that way than them be here with me. Doesn’t make it easier as I would’ve been due in 3 days! :( xx

@Courtney Davis yeah that’s how I try to think too, I would have been due 16th April and my best mate just had her baby and my niece is due hers in 2 days so all that doesn’t help! Xx

Best way to think if you’re going through it I think! And ah that’s hard, I get that! My friend just had her baby too so know how that feels x

I know exactly how you feel. I’ve had 6 chemical pregnancies and a missed miscarriage at 13 weeks. I’m supposed to be 6.5 weeks pregnant now (I test every day and they’re all positive) but I can’t help thinking I’ll go for a scan (have one booked for Monday) and there will be something wrong. Pregnancy after loss is so terrifying. Could you pay for an early scan at 6 weeks to give you some peace of mind?

@Courtney Davis wow sorry that must be hard for you too! I want to be a good friend but our kids would have been a month apart

Yeah I completely get that it is very hard! Definitely when it’s your friends and you wanna be happy for them but you can’t be! X

@Hannah oh I’m so sorry for you! That’s my other problem, I haven’t registered yet because I’m too afraid, but I miscarriaged at 10 weeks waiting for my stupid 12 week scan, even though I told them my worries and that I had no symptoms! So I might just do that, thank you x

Thank you! I haven’t registered yet either, but I’m under the recurrent miscarriage team so they said they would give me an early scan, but I’d have definitely got a private one if not as the wait is awful. I’m so sorry to hear about your miscarriage last time. It’s so awful. Hope you’re able to get a scan and put your mind at ease soon xx

@Hannah sorry I missed read im apparently 5.1 weeks today so I don’t know if I should try and contact them explain the miscarriages, and Thank you

Sometimes you can self refer to the early pregnancy assessment unit for a scan. My hospital told me they only do them after 3 miscarriages but you can say about the chemicals too x

@Hannah thank you! I had an early scan when I bled at 6 weeks with my little boy so I might contact them again