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I am encountering difficulties with my 20-month-old daughter, who insists on drinking only formula milk and refuses solid food, despite being introduced to solids at six months. Can fellow mothers offer advice? Have your children gone through a similar phase? What approaches worked best for you?
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I still breastfeed my 20mo and there’s days where he doesn’t want to eat much and rather nurses. Could be teething pain or something else. This is what I’ve read a while ago that I go by: it’s your responsibility to provide food but it’s their responsibility to eat it. Toddlers have so many more exciting things to do than eat. Unless you’re concerned about rapid weigh loss, I wouldn’t worry too much. Keep serving her meals and let her do the rest.

@Alice Hi Alice, thanks for your comment. When my daughter was six months old, I started introducing solid foods into her diet, but soon after, I contracted pneumonia, requiring hospitalization. My in-laws came to support us during this challenging time but ultimately did not provide the necessary assistance. Specifically, my mother-in-law chose to feed my daughter formula milk exclusively. Due to my compromised health, my daughter developed an enduring preference for formula over solid foods. I am worried about the potential consequences of this dietary preference and wish I could alter the past. 😔

I would talk to your pediatrician about it and see if they think it's worth seeing a feeding specialist

Sweta, I’m sorry to hear that happened. That’s hard. 😞 Would your daughter drink a smoothie or a puréed soup? If she prefers liquids to solids, maybe you can get some nutrients into her that way. I wish you and your daughter the best. ❤️

@Sweta I’m so sorry this happened to you and I agree with the other comments to either try and blend foods into smoothies or definitely see a professional.

@Emily I tried everything but she refused 😭

@Alice I have an appointment with her pediatrician on Monday. But I don’t think she will give me good advice or help me. Bcoz every time when I ask her about this matter she always says that she will eat ☹️

@Leah is there any feeding specialist? I didn’t know about it

@Sweta yes! This is definitely something that you can get professional help with. It's tough but you don't have to go it alone!

@Leah thank you so much for your help 😊🤗

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