Newly single and it hurts

I hate to join this group on any terms( not in an offensive way, I just hate that any woman has to deal with baby daddy drama, life could be so much simpler) but I felt like it was the right community to reach out to. Ya girl is hurting bad :( I literally just called it off with my fiance(also father to my soon to be child) last night (for a lot of very valid reasons, none physically abusive!!) and I knew that it was gonna happen but now that it has happen , I have been on the most internally emotional roller coaster I think I have ever been on. Any advice ?? 🥺🥺😔

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once you feel any drive to leave or thought, that’s when you know you need to. im sorry you are going through this, but also know your not alone, hence why group chats like this exist!! we are all here for you

I feel your pain, when I fell pregnant me and my partner were very happy but he became abusive and police got involved which forced our relationship to end and he is not allowed to contact me or see me which has caused me massive heart break at such a vulnerable time. I felt very alone so I’ve made sure I have been keeping myself around positive friends, being kind to yourself is also important, I like to go for walks in nature as it helps calm my busy mind. I am also going to try some face to face support groups just to have those connections with others and maybe other people who I can relate with and not feel so alone. Stay strong 💪🏼❤️🙏🏼

It’s seriously so comforting to have others out there to relate to no matter the circumstances. I know I gotta start waking up and staying active in the day time I just feel so anxious because I’m not working right now and probably won’t work until a few months after I give birth, this is the longest time I’ve ever not worked and it compounds the already stressful situation dealing with my ex. Thank yall for your comments and those are great starting ideas. I just have to put that initiative in every day no matter what !

And @Sarah that breaks my heart for you !! I would never compare my situation to yours so I’m thankful that you have the strength to even encourage me through what you know is definitely a vulnerable time. I pray for your strength and I can tell you’re a fighter because you’re doing what fighters do , encourage others so that they can also find the peace that you would want for yourself. @petal thank you for reassuring me that it’s gonna be alright, sometimes we just need to hear it so that we can know we’re alright 😩💜

@Felicia thank you 🙏🏼 I find knowing I have a life growing inside me has given me strength and motivation at a painful time, it is also so useful having groups like this and other people to talk to and relate to 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

@Felicia I am also in the the same situation, this is also the longest period I’ve never worked, I’m using this time to focus on my self and health, I feel falling pregnant unexpectedly has help given me purpose again. You can do this 💪🏼❤️and always free to chat to me ☺️

It’s been 2.5 years for me and still hurts

I love this group already !! @♥️KQWEEN MODEST♥️ thank you so much for the hugs , I can definetly feel theeemmm 😩😩😭😭😭 and yes I would love to chat sometime @Sarah , the motivation is definetly real !! @SPK sending all the love and hugs to you !! Heartbreak comes in different forms and we all handle them differently, I’m hoping and praying for your peace and strength each day 💜💜