I’m doing blw. Yes at first she was wasting my food cause she’d just play in it but now she is trying to feed herself. Most of it do end up on the floor or in her chair and she only gets bits and pieces but u have to understand that they are still new to this so they aren’t gonna be experts. Video of her trying to eat chicken. Took a few weeks to accomplish this btw
Yesterday she ate purées and it went so well. She actually ate all of it
But I also started at 4 months so she’s had time to adjust and learn
Also with the last part I do solids and water then bath then shower. They don’t actually eat anything so the still drinks all her milk
I feel this in my soul 😂 I've worried about if I'm doing it right ever since I started weaning also 3 weeks ago but I've decided I'm just going to listen to my baby and that's that. If he wants to be spoon fed, great. If he wants to feed himself, great. If he wants to eat it all, great. If he doesn't want any, great. If he makes a mess and has fun, great. If it's tidy, great - though this has never happened to me either! They know what they want so I'm just there to provide food and make it accessible and fun! What I will say though is the advice is that food before 1 is fun, so regardless of how much they eat I was told to aim for food about an hour after a milk feed so milk is their main source of nutrition. Again though, this isn't always doable or we'd never leave the house even on 1 meal a day.