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Husband lied to me about going to work instead he went and chilled with his pals or so he says even thought I said I have a day off too so we can both chill instead he lied and said he went to work, I'm angry and upset what do I do...

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That is not ok he could of just told the truth and make things easier and if he wasn't really with his pals then u need to confront him on what he done

He said he didn't tell me cos I would have made an issue about him meeting up with his pals, but I think he did just meet his pal and then chilled on his own

He said sorry and won't happen again but what if it does then what nd what else has he lied about?

Lieing is ok either way u need to let him know how u feel apology or not he needs to be more upfront in ur relationship just because he wanted to chill with his friends doesn't mean he has to lie about it

But a whole day to chill not even a few hours a whole full day he needed to chill 8 hours

You better cuss his ass out lol. I would have lost my shit if I were you

I did and a lot worse but I don't know what I should do now

Gurl these men be lying. If he wants lost trust in a marriage he has to understand those repercussions. Lying is never okay and not to be expected or trusted moving forward tf. This is major red flag on if he’ll be honest moving forward.. But is he under pressure like you’d flip if he wanted to be alone? Because they say that’s an excuse to lie. Maybe y’all can discuss better boundaries for his me time so he doesn’t feel encroached upon enough to lie but also talk about how this trust fucked things and how he needs to earn that back

All trust is lost i don't trust anything he says at all now... I don't think there is anything to do or fix this I don't even want to talk to him anymore

Good morning, I don’t blame you hunni . By him lying to you with something major like this , you’ll probably never believe him again . Even with something small & innocent. You & him definitely need to tlk this out, or try & get counseling. If you can’t afford counseling, maybe try & tlk to your pastor about some counseling. If you guys go to church . This incident can definitely cause problems within your marriage

I don't even want to talk to him cos nothing he says I will believe he's broken all trust so I don't see the point in talking

Divorce. Next question.