Single mom help

Firstly take a moment for yourself, whether it’s having a bath or a walk and just gather your thoughts and emotions. Whatever the reason is, it’s a good thing and you’ll do so much better without dead weight x

What country are you in love?

Where do you live? My dms are open if you want to chat. You will do fine, i promise you get into a routine with your kid(s), and life just falls into place. Life is so much more peaceful aswell ❤️ xx

Listen let me give you some words of wisdom. You’re in this position right now but it’s not forever. I’m sure you remember when you first got those labour pains right to the minute the little was born. Fear does not control you, you are capable, you are strong and you have a constant reminder daily by your beautiful child. Take a few deep breaths like 5 or 6 and exhale slowly out through your nose. You got this and everything will be okay I promise.

I’m a single mother as well ftm and my baby turned 2months today I ve been doing it all by myself and was at the hospital alone for 6days before I had my baby and I was in the delivery suite alone and my family isn’t here as well but trust me everytime I look at my baby I am proud to be his mum,I’m not gonna say it’s going to be easy but you ve got this and you will definitely be fine

I'm so sorry your going through this. I'm in a similar situation kicked him out last night after being together for 13 years we have a 7 month old and I'm 4 months pregnant. Found out he was cheating I'm devastated

Hey love I'm a single mom of 2 under 2. Trust that you got this babes put what every your situation is in God's hands. You are a great mother and your children will thrive without him holding you back. Let's go single mommies❤️

@Eviee Scotland x

@Francesca Im in Scotland x thank you! It just Im here alone and no money as Ive been at home with the baby so..

@Francesca so sorry to hear that hun, we dont deserve that. He cheated aswell, and flipped everything to be my fault

Are you able to go back to your original country and closer to family? Just so you’re not entirely alone, would your family pay for a flight back home? Or have you taken a liking to the country you’re currently in and would like to stay?

So sorry you're going through this. I'm a single mum and have been for the last 5 months (even though me and his dad weren't together he was living with me to help out but he was useless so I kicked him out) honestly it's tough but you do just cope because your baby needs you!

Message me if you want to chat, my daughters father walked out on us a year ago, and i was a sahm so relied on him for everything. I lost my home and everything because of it. Have you put through a claim for universal credit? Xx

@Francesca oh girl im so sorry xx

I’m in your exact position,my son’s 1.5 yrs. I have like 1 real friend n 1 baby sitter that can help me. I have zero family out here. I was scared to death in the beginning, but some how I knew when I found out I was preggers what the reality was going to be. Once you’ve excepted the reality, n everything that comes with it, you’ve got NO choice but to push on. I promise you after you except it, in my opinion was the hardest part, I still break down if I let myself go there, which is fine. I did it holding rocking my son for a while praying I made the right choice, I cried so much my son thought I was laughing, so when I cry now he laughs, smh. Pretty soon your going to look back at that scared little girl n high five her for being stronger than you knew u could be. HMU if you wanna chat, it’s not ever a cake walk but rewarding…… HELL YEA!