This man told me his ex cheated then got herpes on a date.

Then followed up with a text yesterday saying she hit him up. Saying he’s clean from herpes, I was so lost like why is he telling me this, now I’m thinking like maybe God had him say something random about it again to really tell me he’s still in love with her. What do you think? This was our 1st date. That’s his most current ex. I didn’t speak about my ex. If I ask him if he’s ready to date again am I judging him for telling me about his ex multiple times? Maybe he’s just being honest with me and transparent. He said “silly hoe texted me saying she’s clean” I thought that was sort of wild the way he said it too. Is he trying to be close with me?

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Woman run! He is a mess and it’s giving giant red flag!

It’s giving… weirdo. He’s trying to prove to you he’s std free but doing it while talking about his ex. Personally… I wouldn’t trust no damn text from no damn stranger about a risk to my health (if it were to go that far). This is too much of a mess. Run. Next it’s going to be “she found out I went on a date and she’s texting me crazy.” You don’t want no parts of that.

He needs therapy before he even tries to get into another relationship. And why does he still have contact with his ex unless they have a child together? Trauma dumping on the 1st date is crazy. He is telling you too much too soon.

Run that’s a huge red flag. Also men calling another woman a hoe is not it

@Sarah that’s what I thought as well, I don’t think there’s any reason to still be chatting to your ex unless you’re still in love with her and maybe trying to detach still which is still not in my best interests

@Allie exactly!!! Men forget we are women and don’t want to hear certain derogatory terms at other women despite anything they’ve done smh

@Alyson my whole thing is why? I never said I’m having sex with him! I told him clearly I have no expectations for a relationship. I’m enjoying my time to my self and if he wants to come along the journey being consistent and reciprocal then he’s invited otherwise I don’t need a sometimes bf. So him proving that I feel lien exposed his true intentions sadly and if anything that misalignment is what’ll block him. It’s crazy you said that because he said in the same text that she lurks his instagram and I said something encouraging and he didn’t respond to that because he must know she’s crazy and stalks him tbh. That’s probably why he hasn’t given me his IG or even his website since he’s such the health coach expert!

Sista , plz block his azz, & move it along to someone else @Zingha . You’re a beautiful woman, you’ll find someone with out all that drama . And then he had the nerve to call her a hoe., Chile well what that makes him,a dirty hoe !!!! Plz don’t start a relationship with that azzhole ! I don’t care how honest you think he’s trying to be

@Jan exactly! I don’t think he’s trying to be honest I think he’s hiding something and I knew y’all would confirm because our instincts be on point ! He’s disguising the truth with fake honesty trying to fast track to some panties girl. They think they’re being creative

@Zingha girl right lol 😂. I’d definitely say Boy bye ! Find a fool, because I’m not one !

U better run so fast