Clear instructions were left and not followed. If someone did that at a job they would be disciplined. It’s really that simple. Trust is broken. It’s not overbearing, it’s a lack of respect from them and they shouldn’t be expecting you to just trust them again. They are acting casual but your baby is the most precious person so it’s not casual how they treat them/you.
Can your partner speak to them?
You’re not over reacting, the. Whole thing comes down to them not respecting you or you’re decisions and how you want to do things x
@Hannah I agree; I often get my husband to speak with my in-laws x
Nope, they lose unsupervised babysitting privileges in my eyes. Three times is a choice to not listen to you.
Yeah they’d be losing the right to see my kid unsupervised tbh 🖕🏻
My FIL tried giving my 6 month old crayons that he would’ve just stuck to the back of his throat, they would’ve snapped, and he would’ve choked so I feel you❤️
nooooope not even slightly, that would be my last strike honestly