Ladies… need some advice

I have a 4 yr old girl was in a ten year complicated narcissistic relationship and really want to be in love again and just find my person This might sound easy to some but since having f my daughter i’ve been cautious of dating etc like i feel obstructed Those with more than one child i always wonder how you guys made the second child 🤣 i don’t no why when i made my daughter it felt easier to have good sex Now she’s in the home i feel like i can’t let’s say ‘perform in the bedroom as well’ 😅 i do overthink and worry for no reason sometimes but yh my neighbour has like 8 kids i think how is she giving it her all in bed with the kids in house! i’ve had guests come over before but i think i’m skeptical about having a man in my bed in general lol cause i’ve been alone for a few years now my daughter wants a sibling, the thought of having sex to create a child scares me 😱 am i weird or what

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I was the same had my walls up. Went on dating apps...in the end gave up. Just focused on my daughter. Then one day my car broke down and the guy that came to rescue me...well we just hit it off. My walls came straight down. My daughter 6 at the time loved him too. Now 4 years this month we have an almost 2 year old, bought our house and getting married next week 🥰🥰 Stop looking and it will come and you'll just know 🥰🥰🥰

I honestly think it happens when fate knows you need it or are ready for it. I had a year old son already when I met the man I'm with now. We met at work and i gave him a hard time, (telling him i only wanted to be friends with benifits) lol but he wasn't having it, he Pursued me and eventually i gave in and he's been the best thing to happen to me besides my kid. My son is now 2 and me and this man have been together now for a year and I just gave birth to our babygirl on March 22nd. He treats my son as his own and ever since our daughter has been born me and him have grown closer. Honestly he is my dream guy and I couldn't happier 💓. I know you'll find love again soon girly. Just gotta have faith that fate will bring him to you when the time is right 😊

I became a single parent when my daughter was 5 weeks due to my ex being an alcoholic. I met my current partner when my daughter was nearly 18 months. He never stayed when she was in the house for the first 5 months. I bought a noise machine for my daughter's bedroom as my partner was terrified that she would hear us. She is now nearly 5 years old and she has never woke up when we have sex. The noise isn't overly loud, it is just white noise and it helps the brain to focus so that other noises don't wake them ie squeaky floorboards etc. my sister told me about it as she always used one with her son