Am I being unreasonable?
Sorry abit of a rant! I have a 9month old baby and currently 18 weeks pregnant I work 3 days a week and all the other time I’m with my little one my partner is constantly asking for sexy videos when he is at work and wanting sex most evening and I just feel exhausted! I feel like when my little one goes to bed at 7:30 I just want to chill out until I go to bed at 9pm. Am I being to harsh saying I can’t do it all? And should I be putting out more to try to please him more?
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If he’s pressuring you to do something you’re saying you don’t want to do it, is a form of SA especially if you’ve said no multiple times and you end up doing it just to get him to stop asking you. You don’t have to budge or satisfy him. If you are tired and already said no that should be the end of the discussion. You never have to do anything you don’t feel up to doing!
I'm sorry to he so forward, but are y'all having sex at all at the moment? The answer will feed into my response.
@Ange we have sex twice a week
You just had a baby less than a year ago and you’ve got another bubba on the way, it’s completely normal and reasonable how you are feeling. Your partner should be more sensitive and understanding of this fact x
I don’t think you are being unreasonable. It’s tough being pregnant and also having another child to look after. You’re also working as well. Having sex just to please him wouldn’t be enjoyable. Does he at least help with the 9 month old???