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I’m almost 30 and have always been so self conscious of my vagina, specifically my inner lips. One is a inner and the other an outie, i know it’s normal but due to me being self conscious I never allow men to give me oral even though I would love to. How do I get over this?

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Have you ever seen the wall of vaginas? It might help you realise how different everyone's vaginas are and might help you with your opinion of your own

know that your man is literally feeling fucking blessed and excited to be down there. And he will show you his full appreciation (you cumming). Just tell yourself that and enjoy him enjoying you.

Sex is called knocking uglies for a reason! Ain't nothing gorgeous down there on anyone. It is not the looks that gets a man get excited it the expectation of what's about to happen.

@Anna as a lesbian I disagree! All vulvas are beautiful! I definitely enjoy looking at what I’m enjoying lol… But Op like I said above all vulvas are beautiful and unique! And i agree go looking at the wall of vulvas! And get acquainted with yourself by using a hand mirror. You can even talk to her and give her positive affirmations the same way that you would do self love by looking at your face in the mirror with positive affirmations… Do the same thing with your vulva! Get comfortable with her! She is the one friend who will always be with you 🫶🏻